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Healing the Broken Heart

Healing the Broken Heart        Wound of the Unloved

In the session the individual brings their thoughts and feelings. This involves looking at whatever comes up: dreams, memories, feelings images etc. I reflect upon what has been raised and make observations with an emphasis on applying this to current life issues. I help the person to think together with them about their feelings and difficulties, to learn how to think in new ways and find solutions for themselves in a sensitive environment.

I have found that people seek psychotherapy or counselling often because of a deep sense of unhappiness, meaninglessness and depression.

My work involves listening to how individuals and couples talk about their experiences, exploring secure, insecure patterns of relating and helping them to find autonomy and begin to care for their own soul.




Abandonment
Rejection
Self Worth
Despair/Anguish
Insecurity

Codependency

Other Expertise
Jealousy & Betrayal
Love & Passion
Depression & Melancholia
Addiction
Loss Related Eating Disorders
Suicidal Thoughts

Attachment & Dependency
Possessiveness
Grief, Bereavement & Sadness
Unhappiness
Separation & Loss
Matters of the Heart



Anxiety, Panic & Nervous Disorders
Trauma, Love and Loss
Writing as a Therapeutic Art
Marriage/Relationship Difficulties
Individual/Relationship Therapy

Having trained and worked widely in the field of psychotherapy, I have gradually developed a universal approach to my work, combining Jungian, Lacanian, Humanistic and Psychoanalytic conceptualisations of the practice of therapy. I have always believed the various psychoanalytical schools of thought have been hampered by their non-inclusiveness and rather than there being one ‘correct’ way to practice psychotherapy, the client should dictate the course of treatment.

As a qualified Naturopath, my specialisation is in the relationship between diet, eating disorders, low mood and lethargy.

I have experience in helping young people of between 13 and 21 years old within their emotional health. I have worked in Dr Barnando’s and other children’s homes as well as schools.

I am able to conduct Brief Solution Focused Therapy which is a 4-6 weeks intensive process for seeking solutions to a specific issue.

What is EMDR?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR and CBT, take place in an atmosphere of warmth and sensitivity. EMDR is used for clients experiencing emotional trauma, loss and anxiety. The first phase is a history taking
session during which the therapist assesses the clients' readiness for EMDR and develops a treatment plan. We identify possible targets for EMDR processing. These include recent distressing events, current situations that elicit emotional disturbance, related historical incidents, and the development of specific skills and behaviours that will be needed by the client in the future situations. These involve the client identifying the most vivid visual image related to the memory (if available), a negative belief about one's self, related emotions and body sensations. The client also identifies a preferred positive belief. The validity of the positive belief is rated, as is the intensity of the emotions. After EMDR
processing, clients generally report that the emotional distress related to the memory has been eliminated, or greatly decreased, and that they have gained important cognitive insights, importantly, these emotional and cognitive changes
usually result in spontaneous behavioral and personal change, lessening the heightened emotion around the traumatic incident.

What is CBT?
CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) In this 'the age of anxiety' many people seek professional help for a broad
spectrum of occupational, family, relationship or emotional problems. Depression and anxiety are the most common of psychological problems, with around 60-70% of adults experiencing symtoms of depression, and as many as 27% of people experiencing an anxiety state at some time during their life. CBT is an educational approach based on scientific principles which help the client to understand their problems, and how these affect their thoughts, feelings and behaviours. The focus of the therapy is to enable clients to generate solutions to problems based on techniques learned in therapy, which are more effective than their present coping strategies. CBT can help you in your relationships by:

*Become more in control of your life rather than feeling powerless to change

*To help develop an inner agency, away from codependency

*Develop better self-esteem and self-confidence

*To find a way of really listening to what your partner is trying to say

*Speaking between you can cause confusion and anger, 'she/he won't listen to me'

*Emotional Turmoil and unable to find a way to communicate with one another

''The physician must take nature as her guide and what she then does is not so much therapy as furthering the development of the creative
seed inherent in
the patient''

C. G. Jung

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I can also use the writing process as a therapeutic art and am able to work with individuals to gain a deeper sense of understanding through their creative expression.

All work takes place with the utmost respect, privacy and confidentiality in an atmosphere of calm and safety.

As an Associate Member of BACP, I work in accordance with the BACP's Ethical framework which you can read about by clicking here.


Fees

The fee is £50 a session for Psychotherapy and Counselling, and £60 a session for Brief Solution Focused Therapy. The session lasts one hour.

We would start with one or two consultations to get to know each other and there is no obligation to continue with the therapy.

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To make an appointment please call us on 07882 369 663 or landline
01732 453 758 (9am - 5pm, Monday to Friday)

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