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Healing the Broken Heart

                                                                 Healing the Broken Heart        Wound of the Unloved

The Wound of the Unloved

As a couple/relationship therapist I work with people who find themselves at a complete loss of knowing how to deal with some of the very raw emotional difficulties that come from being in a 'love relationship', unable to find a way to reach one another, listen to one another, loss of the original emotional connection that once flamed their attraction to one another.



Often living alone together experiencing a range of feelings, from: depression, anxiety, sadness, anger, grief, panic, shame, desolation, betrayal, jealousy, loss and separation. What pivotly lies at the bedrock of this 'unease’ and often chaos is fear... fear of being alone, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment and here lies the root of the deepest fear, fear of not being loved.

My work involves listening to how people talk about their experience of love, attachment, separation and loss, trauma, exploring secure and insecure patterns of relating. The fear of abandonment and rejection is worked through towards harnessing a secure base within oneself with which the person finds autonomy, independence and begins to care for their soul.

We will explore how you may able to move away from living together alone to living together apart, leaving one free to love and live without fear and insecurity.



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